Sex Coaching Circle with Jem Ayres (3 Month/6 Session Container)
Mar 30 |
Thu 30th Mar 2023
2:30pm – Thu 15th Jun 2023, 4pm EDT (UTC -04:00) |
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Welcome to Sex Coaching Circle for the 3 month/6 session Container
starting
Thursday 30 March -Thursday 15 June (skipping 25th May), 7.30-9pm GMT (UK)
Doors close at 7.35pm GMT (UK); please don't be late as you will not be admitted
This closed group is limited to 15 people.
The Sex Coaching Circle is for anyone wanting to learn new things about their bodies, their sex and pleasure.
We’ll create a space for you to learn about deepening your connection to yourself and meeting your body in a new way.
You’ll gain a greater understanding of your body, as well as a tool belt of pleasure-enhancing practices to work with at home.
* During these online sessions Jem will be offering:
- Practical techniques and exercises to expand our capacity for pleasure.
- A held space by a trauma informed, non-judgemental sexuality professional.
- The weekly 90 mins space keeps our Pleasure on the agenda.
- The embodiment practices give us the opportunity to drop deeper into your body.
- The discussions and practices give permission and a language to pleasure.
- A container lasting 3 months which helps create new neural pathways and break habits we may have got into around our body, our pleasure and sex. Repetition is how embodiment works.
- The practices create a toolbox to use through our lives for resourcing, pleasure (both self & with partners) and deepening intimacy.
- The homework for your personal sexual self-development is optional but supportive to the process.
- It’s an anchor to come back to even if you skip a week or two, and you ‘ll be welcomed back by will the same faces.
- It’s maintenance….you don’t have to have a ‘challenging’ sex life to attend.
- Everyone has more to learn in the arena of pleasure, so we’re all at the same ‘level’.
- Having others to learn from and witness shows us we’re not alone in our curiosity and exploration.
- A place to ask questions and bring your celebrations & challenges.
It’s not therapy!!!! BUT it’s super therapeutic.
* Topics and discussions can include:
- Orgasms & how you can expand your orgasmic choice, potential & range
- How your arousal rhythms effect your interactions and capacity for pleasure
- Relaxation versus performance
- Sex beyond the genitals
- Performance anxiety
- Self- resourcing & self-pleasuring
- How you can live from a place of orgasmic potential
- Difference between sex for mating and sex for bonding
- How to have more presence with ourselves and our partner(s)
- How our nervous system affects our arousal response
Pleasuring your partner(s)
* Dates (Thursdays):
30 March, 13 April, 27 April, 11 May, (skipping 25 May), 1 June & 15 June
* About your Sex Coach, Jem Ayres:
Jem is a certified Sex Geek – A Sexological Bodyworker, Tantra practitioner and teacher, a workshop facilitator, public speaker and Orgasmic Embodiment coach. She has over 10 years’ experience in the field of self-development through the body including a career in Burlesque aswell as using the healing power of Orga*sm to overcome Cancer.
Jem now teaches what she likes to call ‘Sexual Self-Development’ through her one2ones, retreats, workshops and public speaking.
Multi-talented and creative she is passionate about helping people to connect with themselves through the body, fine-tuning into the subtleties of our life force, using sexual energy to fuel all areas of life.

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