Sex Club ONLINE: 4 Week Course - Edition II
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Mon 13th Feb 2023, 2pm – Mon 6th Mar 2023, 4:30pm EST (UTC -05:00)
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After Sex Club 4 Week Course I on Desires, Shame, Communication, Sex and Solo Sex, this Edition II on Truth, Love, Sex, Orgasms and Beyond is equally profound and popular. You don't need to have attended I to attend II.
★★★★★ “This course far exceeded my hopes and expectations. I am so grateful for your expert holding of such a potentially tricky subject. The course was fun, deeply serious, dealt with stuff head on, unashamed and gripping. Despite reservations and trepidations that this course was “for me” I was really quickly on board, and totally engaged throughout. I have learnt and discovered so much, but the biggest take away is that my “issues” were not as dire, big or unusual as I imagined them to be, but pretty mundane and normal for the culture I grew up in. This is such a relief to know this. I am so delighted I took the plunge and grateful for you both. I look forward to working with you again. Huge gratitude." A.
We will explore more key areas that contribute to a healthy, connected and playful relationship to our sexuality. If you feel curious about your relationship to sex, and how it affects your behaviours maybe more than you realise, join us on a journey of liberation into a more honest, intimate and juicy experience of your sexuality.
Whether you’re single or in a relationship, you have sex or no sex, you experience 14 different types of orgasms or none, you masturbate a lot or not at all. You’re definitely a sexual being.
The relationship to, and conditioning and experience of our sexuality affects all of us. It permeates our day to day experience consciously and subconsciously more than we realise.
Throughout our life the majority of us didn’t develop a practise a processing our sexuality or making sense of it. Mostly, we’re unable to translate our inner experience, desires, boundaries and fears into words because we’re not used to it.
★★★★★ “Sex Club has been the most exciting, fun & rewarding course I’ve been part of. Each week I connected with parts of myself, emotionally as much as sexually in ways like never before. At times, it was painful and scary but necessary and met with such love and care from the beautiful souls on this journey with me. Juliane and Conor have hit on something really quite powerful and revolutionary with this course, which they facilitate with such gorgeous humanity and vulnerability. It’s also just great craic! Thank you with every ounce of my being.” - Mary-Jane Fox
ABOUT THE COURSE
In this 4 week Sex Club Course we will take you on a collective journey to practise expressing your experience in words. Hear and learn from others, and explore key elements that are necessary to connect to your sexuality more profoundly and experience a richer sex life:
- Week 1: TRUTH - We start as we mean to go on, with a deep inquiry into our relationship with truth and our courage to express ourselves
- Week 2: LOVE - We explore what it takes to have sex not only with an open mind but also an open heart
- Week 3: SEX - We examine the expectations put upon us around sex and move towards a more free, creative, present and connected sexual experience
- Week 4: ORGASMS & BEYOND - We reflect on the relationship to our orgasms (regardless if we have them or not) and the orgasms of our partners. We explore what it feels like to take the pressure off and to move away from goal oriented sex
★★★★★ “It is hard to over-emphasize the quality of the experience offered by this course and its facilitators. Juliane and Conor have created something very powerful that I suspect consistently exceeds the expectations of everyone who participates in it for the first time. I signed up simply curious about it, but the depth of the journey, the weekly dose of pure joy, the growth as aftermath, and above anything else the experience of connection with the astounding humans that took part in it have given this course an un-replaceable spot in my heart. Thank you.” - David Gutierrez
FORMAT
Over the 4 week period we will create a container together where through shared vulnerability and a commitment to each other we’ll create group trust so it will feel safe to go deeper into our experiences, de-armour insecurities and shame through exposure and find new confidence and comfort in ourselves as a sexual beings.
We will take you through group exercises and enquiries drawn from group process and shadow work that consist of conversational enquiries. Whilst we will offer a framework of exercises, this course very much focuses on tapping into the collective knowledge and experience of the group. No one has figured out how to do sex or intimacy, yet we’ve all learned something along the way. These learnings we’ll share, and we piece together the puzzle that will create a learning experience that is bigger than the sum of its parts, whilst creating a sense of community and deep connection to your fellow explorers on the way.
Sex Club is a fully inclusive space to everyone regardless of actual or perceived sexual identity, gender identity, gender expression, economic status, ability, disability, religious beliefs or disbeliefs, immigration status, or location. The space will be held safely yet bravely. It is confidential and we each share only what we feel to share.
DATES & TIMES
Mondays over 4 weeks from 7:00 - 9:30pm (UK Time) on 13th, 20th, 27th Feb and 6th March. Zoom Room will open at 6:50pm (UK Time, GMT). To create a safe space with no disruptions no entry will be possible after 7:00pm (UK Time, GMT).
IS THIS FOR YOU?
This course is fully inclusive and valuable to everyone regardless of relationship status or model you’re in, age (18+), ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation and experience, religious beliefs, income and otherwise. No previous experience in similar workshops is necessary. Join by yourself, with your friend(s), lover(s), partner(s). Please feel free to email us (jules@sexclubme.com, conor@sexclubme.com) with any questions, it's okay to feel nervous.
Although this course can be therapeutic, it is not therapy. Whilst we set up a container that enables trust and honesty, we ask everyone to take responsibility for their experience. Please speak to your therapist if you have experienced abuse or trauma through touch or otherwise before you decide to take this course.
TICKETS
We want Sex Club to be accessible to everyone, regardless of income. If you are a high earner please consider the Supporter Ticket which sponsors people with low income. We have a limited amount of concession tickets available for people with no income, please apply for at jules@sexclubme.com with your motivation to join the course.
ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS
★★★★★ “The beauty is the way in which Juliane and Conor encourage you to find your own answers. This self-inquiry has been so much more than everything I expected... Touching, delicate, unapologetic, bold, clarifying...and I am proud to have taken this journey with this group of fierce, brilliant human beings.” - Cj J.
★★★★★ "Juliane and Conor held the space beautifully and created an environment where I could share things I'd never spoken about before. They also encouraged us and created a framework for us to feel into how much was right to share at any moment, to stay in the learning zone rather than the panic zone or comfort zone. Lots of depth, and also lightness and joy" - Emilia M.
★★★★★ “Excellently held. The virtual space was held so well that we were all able to embrace vulnerability in order to share, release and grow. A powerful course where everyone was committed and there for the same truth.” - Alasdair K.
Juliane Mueller
I am a coach, counsellor, facilitator of transformational spaces and artist developing holistic structures and processes that further our collective evolution.
Sexual liberation is at the heart of individual transformation, without which there can be no meaningful societal progress. To this end, I have co-founded Sex Club in 2017. A space where peers exchange knowledge and experiences, to learn from each other, deliberately process and develop their sexuality.
I'm licensed as Heilpraktikerin for Psychotherapy (non-medical psychotherapeutic counsellor) in Germany. I have co-founded and lived in an intentional community project in London for 4 years, developing frameworks for group process work and community maintenance. I consult on collective experience design at festivals, artist residencies and co-working environments on how to build true community, amongst others The Psychedelic Society, of which I became a co-director for 2 years. My artistic and personal enquiry is the authentic expression of self through creativity, intellect, emotion and sexuality. I spent 10 years in the corporate tech industry before my calling into the not-for-profit sector and I remembered that I'm an artist, as we all are.
Conor Cregg
I am a facilitator of transformational spaces, a group process psychologist, counsellor and coach. Designing and leading group processes I support people to deepen their self awareness to recognise and let go of beliefs that no longer serve them so that they can return to their natural state of ease and flow.
As Co-Founder of Sex Club, I’ve discovered that our sex and sexuality often provide profound insights into what is holding us back more generally from living the lives we want to live. By working with these insights we can create change that radiates through all areas of life.
My intellectual background is in psychology with a B.A. in psychology and an MSc in behaviour change, as well as training as a holistic counsellor. My on-going inquiry is how to create spaces that give people the confidence and permission to be real with themselves and others, dropping the performance and coming home to who they really are and always have been.
David Chambers - Authentic Dating Podcast:
★★★★★ - WOW.... Just WOW. So much fun, so insightful, so open, accepting and the space was so well held. Met some amazing people and we discuss topics that i hadn't thought I would be interested in. I can't wait to the next one. My only complaint is that I wish it was all day. :)
Amy Cooper - Secret Seed Society:
★★★★★ - I have taken part in these conversational Sex Clubs before and found them really fascinating, safe, reassuring, enlightening, lightening, stimulating and opening I recommend them. It is not therapy but it is therapeutic, it is not about kinks or being straight or queer, it's whatever the group brings. The variety makes the conversation richer and the difference between us has always seemed to be reassuring. Come if you have sex, come if you don't have sex, come if you feel convinced you know something about sex and would like to share, come if you have no idea what questions you would ask about sex or what you would share. My take home was that we navigate sex for ourselves and can find inspiration and connection from others. Try it..."
Mark Wagner - MKII:
★★★★★ - What a blessing to have discovered Sex Club! A self-enquiry space where we can finally impart our experience, thoughts and feelings on a theme that concerns all of us: Sexuality. Staying well clear of personal judgement, opinions and dogma the atmosphere is warm and welcoming and most importantly acceptant of one and all. For me personally, the 'session' facilitated the integrated realisation that from here on, the evolution of my sexuality was intricately connected to my ability to communicate about sexuality.... So what better place to start than Sex Club!"
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