Cum Not May

Come What May is a Sexual Wellness non-profit led by a team of Sex Educators, Practitioners and Facilitators. Our intention is to create safe spaces for people to dissolve their shame and find their truest sexual expression. 

Cum Not May is our flagship month, in which we use semen retention as a tool for men to become mindful about their bodies and their sexual practices. 

Cum Not May will host weekly Circles for male bodies to  share about their experience, held in a vulnerable, supportive container by the Come What May Leadership team and Circle Gradutaes/Trainees. There is free access to Come What May's online platform which has specific content on  semen retention and energetic orgasmicity.

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Semen retention has been known to have many health benefits and has been a practice documented for over 8000 years in Ancient China, as well as by philospohers such as Socrates and Plato. However, the majority of men in our generation have not explored this practice, or if they have, may not have had the discipline to stick with it over time. 

This is an opportunity for you to be mindful about how it feels to retain; will you have more energy? Will you have less energy? How does it affect your sleep or your relationship with your partner? 

During this month you will explore yourself on a much deeper level, alongside like-minded brothers who will support your journey and keep you accountable. 

TESTIMONIALS:

“Thank you guys for a very beautiful month, so many things to be grateful for. I fell in love with my cock again and realised how beautiful, powerful and energetic it is. I did cum at the end but it was very intentional and very beautiful.”
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“Thanks brothers for this month and this wonderful community - thanks for all the shares, all the space held. This is really important work that is being done here.”
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“Thanks to everyone who took part I’ve benefited massively from just being involved in the group, it’s been a powerful and beneficial month ”
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“My self-pleasure practice just keeps getting better and better. Noticing that last May, the way I got through the month of non-ejaculation was mostly by active distraction away from my cock (with the exception of a few pleasure sessions.) But this month there has been a much deeper connection to my cock and what his deeper needs are. Then I'm offering that in the self-pleasure. It's been hard not to ejaculate but I'm really meeting my edges and giving myself lots of time after self-pleasure to do yoga, sexual kung-fu, exercise and meditation to transmute any stagnant energy. It's bringing me so much peace and I almost can't believe I can allow myself to feel this much pleasure without losing any energy through ejaculation? Like this could become a daily thing? What???”
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“Guys! Had the craziest self pleasure practice a few days back. Just sublime.”
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“Feeling so much energy in my cock and balls right now and needing to be doing lots of movement and Kundalini Yoga to keep it moving 😆”

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Please note that this is not a NoFap event. Come What May is not promoting semen retention as a tool to reduce male pleasure, rather this month is created to expand your pleasure potential!

Come What May has created this month  as a container to explore curiosity. Every man is different, therefore semen retention will affect each person differently to others. Semen Retention could have benefits for you, or it may not, but how will you know if you're never given it a go...?