Relationship Alchemy Immersive

A Full-Day Immersive for Couples Looking to 

Transform Disconnection into True Love

This is your way back if love hurts, or desire feels far away.

This is for you if your relationship could use some holding. 

And this is for you if you are ready to make your relationship and love-making a ‘spiritual practice’ of growing in love.

This mini retreat isn’t about tips and tricks for having better sex or a better relationship, even though it is also that. 

This one-day immersive is about devotion to love through being devoted to your partner's nervous system, heart, sex and soul. 

It is about transforming our core wounds into gold through sacred sexuality, ritual and polarity work. 

Maybe you have a longing to go deeper with your partner. A sacred longing to feel safe, to be seen. 

To feel chosen again. 

Maybe you feel grief for what used to be, or grief for what never was.

Maybe you feel frustrated because the same old boring patterns keep repeating, even though you are doing the work. 

I have been there not so long ago. My partner and I love each other, but because of past trauma, insecure attachment, unskillful communication, and re-traumatising moves on the path of opening our relationship, our nervous systems were wired. There were times we broke up once a week, but something kept us sticking it out even through the times I didn't want sex, and even though the times, other relationship experts gave up on us.  

This was the birthplace of the ‘Relationship Alchemy’ process - a process that involves trauma healing, letting go of grief, and activating the higher potential of your relationship. 

We needed to transform how our nervous systems responded to each other so that we could start believing that deep safety was possible between us - no talk therapy or workshop could help us there. 

Looking back, I wonder why no one (that I know at least) is teaching and sharing these techniques? 

There are so many books written on ‘attachment psychology’ or ‘solving conflict’, but very few teach you how to heal on a deeper somatic level, which is necessary in order to change your behaviour, heal pain, increase trust, and arrive in safety together.

✨ This workshop is for couples and lovers who:

🔥 Are struggling to reconnect after conflict, distance, mental-health crisis or betrayal 

🔥 Want to improve and deepen their relationship, have more high-quality time together, and experience uncharted territory together 

🔥 Are longing for erotic intimacy, but something is blocked (and maybe has been for a while) 

🔥Have insecure attachment styles and want some support that actually transforms  

🔥 Are uncertain  whether or not you are sexually or otherwise compatible, and you don't know how to fix it 

🔥 Want more than just “new tools”—you want healing, safety, ritual, truth, and turn-on

🔥 Want more than just an ordinary relationship - you want to discover relationships and sex as a spiritual path 

🌀 What is the ‘Relationship Alchemy’ Immersion?

It is a one-day experience where we'll dive deeper into the nervous system, the heart, the sex and the soul of your relationship.

It is a holistic transformational experience where you'll experience 4 embodiment practices, one for each of the core areas of the relationship: 

For the heart: You'll learn how to create deeper, more meaningful connection through intimacy practices. These practices will also help you to move beyond triggers or moments of disconnections more quickly into love. 

For the nervous system: You'll learn about attachment styles, trauma responses and why negative cycles happen, so you have a better understanding of what's going on between you.  You'll learn the ‘Relationship Alchemy’ practice, which is a form of transforming trigger into safety, and re-callibrating the nervous system so you'll eventually see each other less and less as a threat. 

🌹 In this process, we complete an unprocessed stress cycle from unresolved rupture (so your body stop reliving the fight on repeat)

🌹We rebuild trust and safety—not through logic, but through imagination, and somatic experiencing 

🌹 We co-create the future vision of your relationship that you want to experience every day

For sexuality: You'll learn  about Sacred Sexuality and how to use sexuality as a spiritual practice for a deeper connection between you two and something Greater. I'll teach you how to use sex magic to call in the relationship you deeply desire, and you can either participate in the sex magic ritual (just between the 2 of you) - or relax while others are practicing. 

🌹 We use Sex Magic to call that vision into the field

For soul: We'll bring in joy and celebration of your relationship, how far you have come, and how much you have grown, through a cacao and appreciation ritual. 

Relationship Alchemy Immersive is not about “fixing” what’s broken.
It’s about transmuting what’s been wounded into something holy, embodied, and new.

It’s the art of turning conflict into communion.
Sex into ceremony.
Relationship into spiritual practice.

🕊️ What is Trauma Healing?

In the context of sacred relationships and sacred sexuality, trauma healing is essential. Trauma is when the past shows up in the present moment, consciously or unconsciously. There are 4 important trauma responses: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. 

These trauma responses can look like overreactions that don’t make logical sense—like shutting down during conflict, not being able to speak up, not being able to communicate one's feelings or needs, withdrawing from touch, experiencing rage or even violence, or feeling unsafe even with a loving partner. 

It’s not about what happened in the moment, but what the body remembers from before. This means trauma is a re-lived experience from the past in the present moment (even if there are no conscious memories, or we are not consciously aware of what might have happened in the past). Trauma can also be trans-generational, which means that we stor the trauma that our great-grandparents experienced in our bodies, which can also affect us in our present-moment reality. In love, trauma often shows up as the fear that the past is about to repeat itself.

🕊️ What is Sex Magic, and is it safe to practice this?

Sex Magic is the sacred practice of weaving your sexual energy with intention and moving it through the 7 power centers of the body —to consciously create, call in, or manifest the future vision for your relationship that is in the service of your highest and best potential. 

It’s not about using sex to get what you want. It’s about becoming so embodied, so present, so alive in your own creative life force… that what you desire begins to resonate into the field of reality.

After clarifying the vision, you'll draw that vision through the 7 chakras: the Root, the Sacral, the Solar, the Heart, the Throat, the Third Eye, the Crown.  Finally, as you move into erotic union with your partner, you hold this vision in your awareness and share it with the entire cosmos. You build the energy. You breathe. You feel. And then you let it go. 

It is a powerful practice that has changed people's lives in unforeseen ways. This is important to share, and it's important that you only practice this if you feel that your vision is in alignment with your highest and best potential. I will ask you before the practice to connect with your higher self and ask this question. 

 In 1 Day, I'll guide you through:

💫 An introduction to my work and teachings on the importance of sacred relationships

💫 How to have deeper, more meaningful connection most of the time 

💫 Devotional Love - and how you can devote yourself to each other's nervous systems 

💫 The Relationship Alchemy process for couples to transform hurt into safety and rewire your nervous system 

💫 Guided Sex Magic Ritual 

💫 Celebration Ritual with Cacao Ceremony 

💫 Teachings on Sacred Sexuality and Sacred Relationships 

💫 An invitation to continue working with me in a deeper way through my coaching programs 

You’ll walk away with:

🌹 A felt experience of transformation and connection   

🌹 A deeper understanding of practical steps you can take to devote yourself more deeply to your partner and build deeper trust step by step 

🌹 A series of rituals you can repeat anytime when  desire  and alignment to your highest vision fades or trust and safety feel distant 

🌹 Alignment with the future vision of your relationship  

🌹An exclusive offer to a Sacred Sexuality Massage course to help you deepen in intimacy and erotic magnetism 

🗓 Date: 6th of July
⏰ Time: 10:00 
📍 Location:  Near Glastonbury (location in the confirmation email) 

Facilitated by: Bibi Gratzer 

Sex and Relationship Coach 
Lover. Teacher. Wild human. Devoted to the sacredness in all our relations