Becoming Your Own Sacred Lover: Masterclass with Bibi Gratzer

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Feel more alive, empowered, and connected to your sexuality with these three practices. 

 

In this ‘Become your  Own Sacred Lover’ Masterclass, discover how to turn yourself on and step into your most attractive, radiant self.

 

Whether you are in a relationship, single, or anything in between - if you are curious about connecting to your own sexuality on a deeper level, meeting yourself in the most intimate area of your life, and maybe making love to yourself in ways no one else ever did (or could) before, this is for you. 

 

Why would you want to invest in your sex life with yourself? 

Sex is a part of our mental health hygiene. When we have at least one mindblowing orgasm a week, we feel more alive, fulfilled and connected to ourselves and thus feel more connected to others and to something greater. Sex generally helps us to nourish ourselves, connect with our bodies, slow down, and give ourselves some attention. All these are basic human needs. 

But the kind of sex education that you'll receive here goes a step further - it reminds us that sex isn't only about our animal body needs - it is about our connection to the Divine / something mystical. 

 

 

Who is this for?

Many people experience periods of disconnection from their bodies, where self-pleasure feels unfamiliar or even nonexistent. Some go years without experiencing orgasm, even while being sexually active. For those who are single, sex can sometimes feel more like routine self-gratification rather than an act of self-love. Pleasure and sexual exploration often take a backseat to daily responsibilities, becoming less of a priority than even the most mundane tasks.

For some, this disconnect leads to engaging in sexual experiences with partners they aren’t truly drawn to—seeking variety rather than deeper connection. Others in relationships may feel dissatisfied with how their partner engages with them sexually, often placing blame on the other person for unmet needs. However, a lack of connection to one’s own body can make it difficult to communicate desires, simply because those desires remain unknown.

Barriers to a fulfilling sex life can stem from a variety of sources, including past trauma, boredom, or compulsive consumption of pornography.

Whatever your reason for seeking change, this masterclass introduces three practical techniques that can be applied immediately to cultivate a deeper, more enriching sexual relationship with oneself.

 

 

What can you expect?

The masterclass is a prelude to the 6-week long course “Sacred Sexuality” for individuals (starting in April), providing an opportunity for you to understand what you can expect over the 6 weeks and ask any questions directly to Bibi. It's the perfect chance to gauge whether this course is what you're looking for before committing to the full journey. 

What we will cover: 

  • We will dive into three powerful practices together on the call that will open the door to a deeper, more powerful connection to yourself on the day of the call. The practices will be embodiment practices - meaning you get to do them on the call.  Hence, please ensure you watch this when you are in a safe space, where you can be undisturbed and make sounds (having music on helps). 
  • The role of sacred sexuality in cultivating deeper intimacy and connection in your relationships.
  • An overview of the 6-weeks course, and techniques we will explore to begin the process of healing and reclaiming your sexual sovereignty.

A recording of the session will be sent to all ticket holders.

 

The Science of Sacred Sexuality

Research shows that regular sexual practices that have an intention and a devotional aspect to the partner, can significantly improve mental health (even more so than psychedelics), improve the bonding between two people, and thus have an impact on our overall life satisfaction, happiness, and family life. 

Research further suggests, that sex can lead to mystical experiences and flow states. Flow states are essential for creative expression and new ideas, which in return can be beneficial for the times we are in - because we need more people who are mentally stable, and come up with creative ideas to change the world as we know it. 

One could say that intentional, high-quality sex has the potential to change the world!
 

 

What do you need to bring? 

 

  • Please make sure that you are undisturbed for the duration of the call (if possible switch your phone off completely) - this includes making sure that you are safe to express sounds.
  • A candle
  • Get cosy - create a nesting space with warm blankets and cushions
  • Water  or something yummy to drink
  • Notebook/journal, in case you want to revisit certain practices or thoughts
     

 

Meet Your Facilitator: Bibi Gratzer

 

 

Bibi Gratzer, is a Tantra Teacher and Sex and Relationships Coach. She envisions a world where men and women celebrate each other as equals, and we remember ourselves and the Earth as a sacred miracle. In this world, sex and eros are seen as sacred again, so that we can connect our humanity, and our instinctual nature with soul and love and thus liberate ourselves from the suffering caused by unconscious sexual behaviour. I want to live and create a world in which we are free in our expression of who we truly are. To make sex sacred again means to connect sex with soul and to recognise sex as a mystical act that connects us with life and death itself. 

How Bibi teaches: 

Bibi Gratzer uses a tantric approach to create more freedom in the body-mind-soul. She works with embodiment practices, meditation, ritual, breathwork, archetypal transmissions, pleasure practices and partner practices.  She also works with opening the chakras, as well as teaches people how to remove blocks and heal limiting beliefs. Through her work, she invites higher frequencies and more energy into the body, which creates more bliss, connection and opens the heart. 

Bibi is a VITA Coach and studied shamanic-tantra and neo-tantra over many years intensively. She has a strong background in masculine and feminine work, as well as family constellations and trauma healing. 
 


 

About the 6-week Course

 

Starting on 16th April, the course will run weekly for 6 weeks, with each session lasting approximately 2.5 hours.

Below is a guide as to the themes we will move through over the 6 week period:

  • Week 1: Foundations, Safety and Unconditional Love
  • Week 2: Meeting & Working with Blocks
  • Week 3: The Art of Worship
  • Week 4: Sovereignty & Holistic Sexuality 
  • Week 5: Presence & Power - Sacred Masculine Energies and men’s sexuality 
  • Week 6: Surrender & Ecstasy - Sacred Feminine Energies and women’s sexuality 

 

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What previous participants have said about Bibi's work: 

 

"The Sacred Sexuality course was a fantastic experience. Each week we delved deeper into different practices and got to learn at our own pace. 

I always felt like we were in safe hands. Bibi was loving and highly attuned to the group and was able to accommodate to the needs of the group in real-time. There was a great balance between safety and only going as far as one is ready for, while at the same time the encouragement to step outside of our comfort zone. The group itself was also really intimate and cosy. I would definitely recommend the course and look forward to learning more from Bibi." - Anita

“Working with Bibi has been a life-changing experience. She holds really safe spaces which gives room to explore more vulnerable parts of ourselves.”

“The course was fantastic and I did things I never expected I would do on a zoom call with people I had not met before. Comfort zone busting and incredibly insightful learnings about how I am put together and the blocks that are holding me back and how to break through them.” 

“Brilliant experience from start to finish. Bibi held the space wonderfully. Great mixture of practical exercises and teachings. Looked forward to it every week. It has transformed my relationship with myself. Would highly recommend to anyone and everyone wanting to understand themselves better.”
 

“The course really opened me up to discovering new parts of myself and allowing myself to dig deep into areas causing blocks and resistance in relation to sex. It is definitely sparked the beginning of a journey in this area… It was wonderful to be part of a group who were able to be vulnerable and share so openly.”


 

Our space

In order to help create a safe container we ask you to comply with the following:

  1. Be open and respectful of each other - People who disturb the safety of the group through judgemental, offensive, or violent behaviour will be asked to leave.
  2. Keep confidentiality - Please don't talk about other people's experiences outside of the workshop; talk about your own experiences only

If you experience significant mental health challenges, please get in touch with us directly before you attend the workshop.

 

This workshop will be recorded and sent to all ticket holders.

 

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Feedback on Intimacy, Identity & Connection events

4.5/5 from 49 ratings
Participants report feeling deeply moved and transformed by the workshops, which are described as "incredible", "insightful", "profound", and "liberating". The facilitators, such as Bibi Gratzer, are praised for their skill, patience, and ability to create a safe and comfortable space for exploration and self-expression. Many attendees express a desire to continue engaging with the series, eager to learn more and dive deeper into the topics of embodied sacred sexuality, shadow work, and relational healing. Overall, the feedback highlights the immense value and impact of these transformative experiences offered by The Psychedelic Society.
17 days ago
2 months ago
We thought it was fantastic. We have previously done a course with Bibi which was also fantastic but this taster session was not a repeat, it was very different. We feel inspired to do the full course.
4 months ago
The course was fantastic and I did things I never expected I would do on a zoom call with people I had not met before. Comfort zone busting and incredibly insightful learnings about how I am put together and the blocks that are holding me back and how to break through them. Bibi is exceptional and I highly recommend participating in any course she has to offer!
4 months ago
The course really opened me up to discovering new parts of myself and allowing myself to dig deep into areas causing blocks and resistance in relation to sex. It is definitely sparked the beginning of a journey in this area. Bibi did an incredible job facilitating. It was wonderful to be part of a group who were able to be vulnerable and share so openly - this wouldn't have been possible without Bibi's facilitation
4 months ago
Brilliant experience from start to finish. Bibi held the space wonderfully. Great mixture of practical exercises and teachings. Looked forward to it every week. It has transformed my relationship with myself. Would highly recommend to anyone and everyone wanting to understand themselves better
6 months ago
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7 months ago
I just love how the healing / learning / expanding continues to integrate in subtle ways through out me, days after the workshop!!!! Thank you Bibi!

Yes, I am signed up for the next one with Bibi!
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