Men's Circle: People Pleasing
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Wed 22nd Apr 2026
6:45pm – 9pm BST (UTC +01:00)
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Studio 1, OMUK, 22 Pakenham Street, London, UK |
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https://dandelion.events/e/v5rwk |
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The Psychedelic Society
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| Activity | CREATE Y.O.U. |
| Local group | London |
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20+ people
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| Enquiries to | jpopjak@gmail.com |
| Add to calendar | Google · ICS |
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Most men were never taught how to truly belong to themselves.
We were taught to be good.
To be liked.
To keep the peace.
To not disappoint.
Somewhere along the way, People Pleasing became survival.
And slowly, almost invisibly, we lost touch with our own truth.
But here’s the cost:
• Saying yes when you mean no
• Avoiding conflict but building quiet regret and resentment
• Performing strength while feeling disconnected inside
• Becoming who you think you need to be… instead of who you are
What lies underneath?
This circle is a space to understand and a chance to interrupt that pattern.
Together, we’ll explore:
• Where did your people pleasing begin, and what was it protecting?
• What do you fear might happen if you disappoint others?
• Where are you abandoning yourself to maintain connection?
• What does honest, grounded masculinity feel like beyond approval-seeking?
Through guided sharing, reflection, and embodied practices, we’ll begin to separate authenticity from conditioning, and reconnect to a more solid, self-trusting way of being.
This is not about becoming selfish. It’s about becoming real. Not about rejecting others, but about no longer rejecting yourself.
If you’re ready to stop performing and start standing in your truth, you are welcome here.
Come as you are.
No fixing. No masks. No pressure to impress. Just men, sitting together, telling the truth.
About your Facilitator

Jozef is a trained architect and offer's coaching to create your own universe, bridging design with human potential and transformation though coaching, facilitation and men's work. He trained with the Co-Active Training Institute (CTI), FLOW Coaching Institute, and PQ Coaching. He now partners with individuals and teams, facilitating learning, transitions, and growth, helping people and organisations thrive from the inside out.
His work is rooted in a calm presence, shaped by years of mindfulness, meditation, and embodiment practices. Guided by natural curiosity and a passion for art and innovation, he recognises and works with the intricate structures and patterns that influence our spaces, minds, and lives.
Testimonials
“Jozef's warm and openhearted coaching approach provides an immediate safe space in the coaching relationship. With his unique ability to see into people's hearts and recognize their true selves, combined with his acknowledgements and championing that land right into the heart, he opens up the space for for deep discovery and explorations within oneself that ultimately lead to self-recognition, self-acceptance and self-love and resonant actions to move forward.” - Daniela
"I have worked with Jozef for two years. He is one of the most creative people I know, and he helped me to discover new resources to help solve problems. His genius lies in understanding the process of transformation and how to make my life transition unique, personal, and powerful. Jozef is not merely a proficient coach, he seamlessly integrates the nuanced perspective of a visual artist and architect to empower holistic solutions for people.” - GK
“Jozef is a unique coach. He has that rare mix of solid wisdom and rare intuition. He did navigate me through a ‘stuck’ place towards the destination. He didn’t tell me what to think or do, but he was the perfect journey companion on the road less travelled.” - GP
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